my fiance is divorced... and since we met he always said that he was never ever going to get married again...(his divorce was $7000 and the wedding over $12000 didnt last more than couple yrs) so pretty much he feels like it was a waste of money and he says that 2 people can be together happy forever without spending tons of money in a wedding that could ended up in divorce... so it make me afraid that i will have to give away my dream wedding with the love of my life if i wanted to be with him.... so everytime we would have a fight i would try to get out of the house because the idea of not getting married and not having my child (he already has one) was killing me.... so i told him... if by May 16, 2012 we arent engaged u are going to lose me forever...by the way he asked would u marry me? and i told him that he had to stop with his stupid jokes... i was serious and i wanned something that would show me it was real.... (that was 3 months ago) he said sounds good....
couple days after dad... we got a tatto in hebrew.. it say: I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine.. we both got it in the same place and everything..... and then he said... all right we r engaged.... and i like.. no u have to propose.... i dont care abt the ring at all we have so many plans and we are leaving for vacations... but i wanna a propose.... 3 weeks later we were at the beach and he asked me if i wanted to get married next yr... i thought it was one more of his joke... but i truly answer of course yes.... and he started to yell that we were engaged and asked his best friend to be the man of honor... and my brother part of it too...and the next day we pick the place where we will have the wedding... and 1 week after we got back to the US he gave me the family ring and he got me my engagement ring too...
then i asked him what made him change his mind... and he said that he really loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.. that he doesnt want to date anybody else or me date other guys....and because he wants to keep we will get married... but that he doesnt need to sign any papers to demostrate how much he loves me....
