I am new to all this wedding stuff and I have a major question about the whole proposal thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and our first year together he bought me a ring and he asked me if I would "eventually" marry him. Does this make it a promise ring? I thought it was more of a promise because we are waiting for me to get done with school (although I would like to get married soon) He was telling people it was an engagement ring so I am confused. I know he is new to the concept of rings and all but how can we be engaged if he doesn't talk about getting married and we aren't planning a wedding. I feel like I am pushing him when I bring the issue up and I would just like some feedback on this. I don't want to keep pushing him and I understand the reason to wait but at the same time I want to talk about it. Thanks for reading!