Hi knot community! I am recently engaged and we plan on getting married December 2012. So the first question is the actual date. Do you guys think the 23rd (sunday) is too close to Christmas? This sorta wraps into the location question. My fiance and I live in Colorado but both of our families live in Illinois. We would like to have it out here in Colorado but I'm afraid some friends/family won't make the trip out here. Is it wrong to pretty much ask everyone to come out here to us? I'm afraid being close to Christmas will work against us. Advice please!