I have been engaged for two weeks tommorrow. We have been together since we were freshman in high school, and all throughout college. His younger brother (a year younger) just proposed to his gf of less than a year. I'm really upset, and to top it off there are rumors of her being pregnant which is the reason for the engagment. I'm beating myself up over feeling so mad and sad because I really like both of them and think it is exciting but they pretty much stole our thunder so to speak. I was planning on getting married in about a year but now that they are engaged I don't really care to do it next year and may just wait longer (more like summer 2013). I have never ever had any plans for what my wedding would be like so I was really excited to start this process. Now I'm not too happy because this girl is like the girl from 27 Dresses always the bridesmaid never the bride so people are super excited for her. I guess I'm just wondering how should I handle this without coming off like a total brat and still be excited?