Just a little guidence please...

AlyM21 · May 2010

My FI and I have been together for almost a year. We have had the talk about marriage and possible children in the future. He is absolutely in love with as I with him, but I guess I really hesitant about the whole thing. I've been in really bad relationships before and don't want to fall victim to another one.

So how do I ge over that fear so I can start a new life with him? He really is an amazing guy (the whole package deal)...

karmellah · May 2010

i was with a very bad man before my fiance. ive been with him for 3 years and i still have moments of being guarded, but i know him. i know his heart. i know he will treat me well (he does). i love him with all my heart and it makes it easier

Julz629 · May 2010

It sounds like you don't trust relationships in general. I'm sure your FI is an amazing man, but maybe going to counseling (either alone or as a couple) will help you out.

luckyme502 · May 2010

I'm not sure what to make of your post. I was married before and it was awful. I have dated since my divorce, some good, some worse than the relationship with my ex-husband. I think you need to be open to love and know that your past relationships don't define the one you are in now. If you are that unsure, perhaps therapy could help you get over your past bad relationships.