I wouldn't say it was embarrassing, but when my fiance proposed to me, he caught me completely off guard. We had just returned home from a concert and I had to pee like a race horse, so I was running inside. He stopped me and when I turned around, all I could say was "Shut the f*** up. Oh, f***"...that went on for a couple minutes before he said "Are you gunna leave me down here all night?" And I said, "NO!"...his face dropped and I realized he thought I was saying no! So I rushed to correct myself and gave him a proper yes.
Mine wasn't completely embarrassing. FI and I had gone to a wedding that afternoon, and then he took me to Olive Garden for dinner. I had a feeling something was going to happen at dinner, but nothing did. I told FI (then boyfriend) that I didn't care how I was proposed to, but that I wanted a surprise. It is reeeaalllly hard to catch me off guard. Especially for him.
Well after dinner, we came home. I took a bath and got ready for bed while he played video games. His mom (yes we live with her for now) came home with groceries. I was helping her bring them in when my phone went off, saying I had something set on my calendar. I usually only set TV shows on it, so I checked to see what was coming on, and it said WILL YOU MARRY ME!!!!!!! And then right there in his kitched in my pajamas, he proposed.
Not too embarassing, but try having your picture taken by his mom with a red (crying) face and pajamas, with your hair piled up in a mess.
oh, sgervais, I understand! We had been away for the weekend and both us forgot shampoo/conditioner. I hadn't washed my hair for three days and was wearing one of his oversized shirts when he proposed. I'm embarrassed about the pictures, but everyone says they are fine. I kept saying that had I known, I would've found something to wash my hair with!
It's not embarassing, but it is a little funny what happened next... We had to drive five hours home after the proposal so off we went. An hour later, we were in the middle of the worst thunderstorm ever. Hail was rushing down the highway in huge rivers of water. Thunder was shaking the car. My fiance looked at me and said "I think God dissapproves of the engagement." I laughed it off, but the next day I ended up really sick and in the hospital. Two weeks later, we finally got celebrate. Maybe God really was pissed...
EDIT: I'm totally healthy now - it's okay to laugh about it
I think mine is kind of funny. Let me premise this by saying that we have been dating for 12yrs, he talks ALOT, and that he is the kind of guy who says he doesn't see the need for "a piece of paper!" He also lost his job of 18 yrs last Feb. (mom & pop company that just didn't have any jobs coming in.)
So cut to me sitting on my computer after working 11 hrs at a retail job. I'm not a drinker and he brings me out a glass of wine and says, "I think your gonna need this." I'm thinking what could possibly be going wrong that I would need alcohol! I looked at him like he has 2 heads and I put the glass down & refuse to touch it. So he tells me to close my eyes and I hear him going through things behind me. Now I'm starting to get a clue, but can't believe it. I hear him walk around me to the front ( I had turned my chair to look at him when he brought the wine.) He tells me to open my eyes and is on one knee with the ring. He says all the sweet romantic things and puts the ring on my finger and all I can say is, "Are you joking!" I mean it's been 12 yrs and he's anti-marriage! I'm saying it over and over, not as in no, but as in I really never thought it was coming and can't get it into my head!
Instead of waiting for a real response he then proceeds to tell me about his shopping trip for the ring and goes on for 5-10 minutes! Not because he is selfish or anything, just because he is as excited as a little kid (it was so cute!) Then we're hugging and he's still talking. It finally dawned on him that I hadn't (didn't really have a chance to) answered! So he says, "Is that a yes?" I say Yes and he then continues talking! LOL He didn't even really absorb it though because a few weeks later he says, "You know you never did say yes." I just had to laugh and remind him!
My now-fiance proposed on the beach in Mexico, after a beautiful nighttime dinner. There were luminaria, tiki torches, and a four-course meal. After dessert, he proposed. I was so excited that I jumped forward to kiss him and ended up head-butting him. I had a bump on my forehead the next day; the bump went away, but we'll last forever.
I kind of knew that mine was going to propose. I thought he had it planned for my birthday since he had made this huge deal out of going to a restaurant on the beach and then going for a walk. The Satuday before my birthday, we took my son shopping for a new dress shirt and on the way home, my son asked if we could clean out the car. So we get home and I'm looking for the stuff to clean the car and my fiance walks into the kitchen and grabs both my hands. He says "You know how much I love you." All I could think was that we were in my kitchen!!! And my son kept coming in asking if it was time to clean the car yet (I should mention that he's a special needs 8 year old so patience is in short supply). All I could say was "Mommy's busy. Not right now." Everybody thinks it's hilarious!!
So i have to start with the whole day before. It was Christmas Eve and he had been at his dad's the night before and was visiting his grandma the next morning. He was coming back to my house to go to my family party with me and everytime I asked him what time he would say i'm not going to tell you what time stop asking...so of course I got really frustrated...and actually started to get mad....but we kept texting all day and then for like 2 hours he just didnt text me and then i get a call and all he says is "I'm leaving my dad's when I get to your house get in the car and bring your camera" I was all sorts of confused now and had no idea what was going on and why I would have to bring my camera anywhere and when he got there and I asked all he said was you said you wanted new pictures so i figured christmas was the perfect time. He drove down to this little gazebo area overlooking the river in the middle of my town and we kinda just stood there talking and taking some pictures. He was holding me close to keep me warm and then all of a sudden pulled away and got down on one knee. It was sooooo cute & so unexpected.
Mine is pretty funny... So I had a feeling Josh was going to propose. That morning (it was a Tuesday) we were both getting ready for work and I asked him if he wanted me to put something in the crock pot and he said NO! I'm cooking tonight (Clue #1) So I come home after work and he made pasta and salad and there were candles on the table (Clue #2)
So we ate and he left the room and came back and proposed and I said yes... but the funny part is about 2 hours afterward he broke out in hives! They were all over his body and kept him up all night (I had to go to the convenience store at 3 am to get him Benadryl and then they progressively got worse throughout the next day and made their way to his face, so I took him to the ER, because I was afraid they would close up his throat. SO then he had to get a shot in his butt! The doctor said it was most likely stress induced since he hadn't eaten or drank anything out of the ordinary.
Keep in mind that he has never broke out in hives before and is a real "man's man." Definitely something we all laugh about and I'm sure it'll come up in the best man's speech!
I lost my job at the end of the school year and I had spent every day all summer long looking for a new one. When Chad came home from work, I was once again at the computer and totally frustrated. He spun my chair around and gave me a big hug and then got down on one knee and handed me...a packet of Taco Bell hot sauce that said, "Will you marry me?" I laughed so hard, I couldn't even say yes!
This is my first "unofficial" propose but its funny. This is going to sound odd though. My FI and I always had a joke about it not being love until you pick each other's nose. (yeah dont ask!) So one night we were at our favorite spot by the water overlooking the beautiful city skyline. We just like to sit there, watch boats go by and talk on his nights off so it wasnt anything out of the ordinary. So he brings me up right near the water and is holding me and kissing them then gets down on one knee, takes my hand, and asks "will you pick my nose?" I started cracking up and said "yes baby of course". He didnt have the ring but it was his funny way of asking me to marry him before he "officially" asked me to marry him.
Haha, well, the actual proposal was not embaressing or funny at all. It was incredibly romantic and sweet. My fiance and I went to the same college, and he knows that Christmas is my absolute favorite time of year. Our college puts a Christmas tree out on the quad every year and holds a lighting ceremony. We went with our two good friends (now MOH and Best Man), and we took pictures in front of the tree. During our pictures, FH turns to me and says, "You know I want to spend the rest of my life with you right?" And then kneels down, pulls out the ring, and asks me to marry him. SO CUTE!!! Well, BM was filming the proposal, and I am immortalized on film saying, "yes...FINALLY!" So the proposal is totally sweet and adorable, but I get so embaressed watching that part with people haha. FH still teases me about it!
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ok.. I have one. My Fi and I have been off and on for about 4 years, finally I had enough of the games and said I was done. He pursued me for another 5 months and I was tough. I held strong and didn't give in. I finally thought I was getting over him. (Don't worry this turns out good!!)
Before a friend of mine and I left for vacation, he called and left me a voicemail but my phone never recieved it. The next voicemail said, "Well I guess you didn't like that idea... Have a good vacation." This left me perplexed. I had no clue what the hell he was talking about. He got ahold of me again after vacation and we were chatting on the phone. He was telling me all about how he screwed up and he finally realized that I was the one for him. That we weren't getting any younger and we should eventually be having children. I was curious as all get out wondering where this was going. Finally he said "If I knock you up, I gotta marry you. So what do you think?" I know, real romantic. I was flabbergasted and didn't know what to say. I told him I was entering a bad service area and was gonna lose him.
Basically 2 years later, we have a son and we're planning our wedding. Not exactly the order I was hoping for but I wouldn't change it one bit. I ask him all the time if he's sure about this and he just reminds me of our little "deal" I have no doubt we're made for each other. I couldn't see anyone else putting up with his or my bs!! ♥
I thought my proposal was pretty funny. Only because of my reaction.
My (now husband) and I were planning our wedding before the proposal. We had even booked our venue so I needed a ring so we could announce it. He loves to surprise, and is very good at it, so I knew he would get me good. Question was when... So the story unfolds.
We were at the mall after work. Middle of the week, literally a Wednesday. We had dinner in the food court and he mentions the photo booth close by. I wasn't up for a picture this time (it wasn't unusual for us to take one) but he insisted. In we went.
Out we came. I'm waiting for the strip to print. He's tying his shoe. He tells me the photo is done and to take it out, still tying his shoe. I tell him it hasn't been three minutes yet. Sure enough, there was the strip. I pull it out and it's a set of photos of him holding signs saying "Kristina" "Will You" "Marry Me?" and then the ring. (A friend had inserted it while we were in the booth)
Stunned, I'm looking at him holding a ring, down on one knee. I kept asking "Seriously, right now?" It's slowly sinking in. Then came a giant cheer from the level above us. Friends and family crowded around the railing staring down on us.
Startled, I ran back in the booth. Seriously. And it's all on tape.
I finally told him yes sometime later that night. I loved my proposal, but now we're married and it's still sinking in! lol I wouldn't have it any other way
Ha I was on a highschool trip to falling water in a yellow school bus packed full of senior males. My boyfriend of two years was waiting until I fell asleep and put the box on my lap. I woke up and being cranky I said "Are you serious right now?" in an angry voice, I thought it was a joke because he is the type to do something like that. I could tell his feelings were hurt he looked like he was gonna cry so then I realized he was serious so I gave him the reaction he wanted and meant it. Worst day ever turned to best day ever. I've told it to friends and they laughed its funny to me.
mines embarassing, so i couldnt even really tell my parents this part! my fiance proposed when i was getting ready so we could go out to dinner. i found the ring in the middle of getting ready.....and i didnt even have any pants on! my friends found this funny, my parents dont know about that small detail. haha
Yes.. my fiance and I went out of town for a concert and he had bought my favorite chocolates and put the ring inside. I had a cold at the time and kept refusing the chocolate. Of all times I refuse chocolate! To make matters worse, when we got back to his place, he had the reciept sitting right on the dresser. So I saw it.. (of course he didn't know that!) Then I kept expecting it.. and finally two days later he put the ring on his little puppy's (pug) collar and sent her to me. I pet her for a few minutes and didnt notice the ring! Eventually he just held her up to me and i saw it!
(Secretly I always wanted the knee proposal, but he didn't). It was still special though!
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Yeah, my proposal story is kind of embarrassing...mainly because I didn't believe my poor fiance! I had just gotten home from the hospital after having two cortisone shots in my hand and was in searing pain. I was laying in bed all hopped up on pain meds and hating life when he leaned in and asked me to marry him. I groggily said yes and went back to feeling sorry for myself. Two minutes later my mother called to check on me and I ended the conversation at that. After hanging up, Bjorn looked at me with a defeated look and stormed out of the room mumbling "You didn't even tell your mother..." It then dawned on me that he REALLY asked me to marry him and I didn't believe him! So I bolted out of bed and chased him downstairs to convince him that I really did want ti marry him! I felt so bad! Talk about a way to change my mood though! I didn't feel any pain for the rest of the night
My fiance and I had been talking about marriage for a while, even though we had only been dating a month or so.
Around Christmas time, he asked me if I wanted to know what I was getting for Christmas. I said no, because I love surprises. We went Christmas shopping that night and got drinks after, where he told me.
He send me a picture message of the ring a day or so later because he couldn't keep the secret.
On December 23, my folks had him over for dinner (I'm in college so I was on break and staying at their place) and I took my fiance and I's dog out to go potty.
WHILE OUR DOG WAS TAKING A DUMP, he gave me the ring. It was a picturesque family moment and will always crack me up
Bit long but I have to explain why someone would propose after 5 months...lol
My Fiance and I have know each other since 6th grade...we dated briefly in high school and he was best friends with my male cousin......after high school he went off to the Marines and we have not seen each other for 10 years....one day we met each other at a stop light.....both coming home from work and since he has lost track of my cousin he asked me to take his number so I can give it to my cousin. 2 weeks later on Memorial Day I'm hanging out with my coworker who happend to have dated a Marine when she realized where I grew up she asked me if I knew Mike. I said yeah...and we dated in HS, and I just randomly saw him 2 weeks ago and have his number...let me see if he wants to come by (I was throwing a Memorial Day BBQ that afternoon)....he came by, never left and 5 months later he proposed by making me think he was going to break up with me! He told me to come by his house right after work, which he never did because he always come over my house....so I went over there and he looked all nervous and I was worried something was wrong and that I did something...and then he asked me to marry him...I sat down on the bed and laughed and said "are you serious" and then said yes....I always thought I would cry when the one asked me to marry him...instead I laughed......6 months to go!!!!!!
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My fiance and I decided that we were ready to become engaged after living together for about a year. We looked at rings together, we were saving money for a few months, and we had already began planning so I knew it was coming but I wasn't sure when.
My fiance proposed last October. He wanted to go window shopping at the shopping center where we met (right outside a movie theater by a bench) and said "I want to stop by our spot" on the way there so I was suspicious. Well, we went into a store that was beside it but when we walked out he walked right past it so I thought that I was wrong. Then when we walked out of the next store I thought we were leaving but he grabbed my hand and led me to that spot. Here is the cute but embarrassing part: he asked me to recreate the moment we met because he said it was love at first sight: I walked around the corner and up to the bench. Then he asked me to do it again! Then he got down on one knee and asked me if I would spend the rest of my life with him as his wife.
Funny part: Even though I didn't know for sure when the proposal was going to happen, I actually knew the day he bought the ring because I had to stay home on his day off, the day he picked to go buy it, because I had the worst case of pink eye! He had to make up some excuse about "christmas shopping" (in the beginning of October people!) so he could leave the house. I was miserable and kept thinking that I didn't want him to propose that day and not be able to see my ring. He told me after we got engaged that he put the ring on the table just to see if I was faking my pink eye and that if I noticed it he was going to propose!
Mine's only "funny or embarassing" because I was too stupid to realize what was going on.
So DH and I bought a condo together. At some point when we were in escrow, we started talking about getting engaged. The conversation ended with DH saying "Well, let's live together, and in another year or 2 if we've got a decent savings, I'll propose then and we can immediately start planning the wedding from there". To me, that meant "Ring's coming in 2 years" and I put the thought of engagement out of my mind-it didn't bother me, because to me it made sense.
We go through with our closing and then we go to our place to see it and open the door, and the living room is filled with flowers. There's even a giant heart made our of roses in the middle of the living room. So I'm squee-ing over how sweet he is for doing this for me, and how I've got the "best boyfriend ever" and blah, blah, blah, when he stops me short and says "Just listen for a second". And then he gets on one knee.
And I'm thinking "His shoe is untied?". Yeah. I really thought that.
Then he pulls a ring box out of his pocket.
And I think "Aw, he's being cute, he must have made the new keys already". Yeah ... I'm dumb.
And then he asked me to marry him.
Then it finally clicks "Idiot, he's proposing". So I started crying and nodding and I managed to squeak out a "Uh-huh" before completely forgetting how to speak English for a good 20 minutes.
Apparently, he had the whole thing planned since we started house hunting ... and everybody and their mother knew it was coming except for me.
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haha - mine was very romantic, but had some funny moments in it.
The short (and only funny version) is:
We were on a ranch in Arizona, and there was this dog which we were playing fetch with. FI got down on one knee and gave the whole spiel. I was totally over-taken with what was happening, rationality left me, and instead of saying "yes" I grabbed the ring and put it on myself!!! (oops...FI looked sad when he realized what I did...so I gave it back to him and let him put it on)
Well, we were hugging and kissing afterwards, and hadn't thought about that dog. He was our only observer, and was whining and crying the entire time. I had to take time out of our joy just to throw the stupid stick again. FI took a video of it, just to show people how funny this dog was. He would NOT leave us alone!
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Totally embarrassing... We drove to my hometown to see my sister and BIL who were there for her 20th class reunion. While at a bar on the night we arrived in town, the conversation turns to our impending engagement. My sister playfully tells us that she used to jokingly propose to her husband, who always answered 'No!', with a giggle. So I promptly turn to my BF and jokingly propose ... to a blank stare and no response. The rest of the weekend didn't go so well.
1 week later I finally confront him about it, since he very well knew I was joking, and tell him that his lack of response hurt my feelings. In my head, I'm thinking about how evasive he's been with me lately and how he fights me at every turn about finally getting our finances combined since we were living together for over a year at that point. I'm thinking he doesn't really see a future with me
At some point, I ask him if I'm really what he wants, if he has a plan in place already or if it's more of an "eventually" type of idea in his head. He responds with a shoulder shrug and "I don't know, eventually?"
Tears. Sobbing. I couldn't form words.
As I'm crying, face buried in my hands, I can hear him yelling frantically "NO BABY! NO! Stop crying!" and fumbling to get across the room to me. He was on his knees in front of me begging me to stop crying saying "Here, LOOK!" as he's opening a small purple ring box. I refused to look. I didn't want our moment to happen that way and neither did he. I made him put it away and he began explaining himself:
Yes, he'd been evasive with me, hiding money, lying about where he'd been and getting defensive about it, all because he was driving to a jewelry store and hour away to make payments on my ring. And his blank stare when I jokingly proposed was because the ring was in his pocket at that very moment because he had tried to propose to me a few hours earlier as we were driving across the Mackinac Bridge ... but I was on the phone with my dad.
After talking for an hour we finally decided the next morning would be more appropriate since the cat was now out of the bag. That idea lasted 10 minutes. Out came the ring again and this time I looked.
Not embarrassing but kind of funny. My FI asked if I wanted to go out to eat that night and I said yeah ok so he told me he would be there at 6:30. Well, in Eric World that usually means like... 7. So, I was a little surprised when he was there by 6:15. I told him I was still getting ready (I was in sweatpants) so I went to my bathroom to finish touching up my hair. He said, "Hey, come in here for a second." I went into my room and he gave me a big hug and started giving this big speech about how much he loved me, etc, then began dropping down on one knee.
I immediately burst out, "THIS ISN'T FUNNY! THIS BETTER NOT BE A JOKE!" (And of course, said yes.) My sister had told me how her boyfriend had joked around a few nights before this and when he dropped down to one knee he said, "Crystal... Would you like anything from the kitchen?"
The FI told me later that he couldn't do some elaborate plan because I'm too suspicious of anything like that (which is true). So he just decided to do it the day he picked up the ring.
Our engagement story is just funny because I didn't realize what was going on. We're a pretty laid-back couple, and my FH always told me that he would propose when I least expected it. I came home early on a Friday from work and he had a tight agenda planned - washer/dryer shopping, dinner, and finally going to see Avitar. I noticed that he had given our dog a bath, but she wasn't wearing her collar. He told me to grab her collar and put it on her. I did that and he kept staring at me. He then told me to go back to the island in the kitchen and that there was something else over there. I went back and didn't see anything out of the ordinary, so I blew off his comment and sat back down. He told me to go back over and look again. So, I got up again and look and finally saw the ring box hiding. I asked it it was what I thought it was, and he told me to open it to find out. Sure enough, it was my ring It was a perfect engagement for us - definitely caught me off guard and surprised me!!
Kinda funny, I guess, but totally normal for odd balls like us. So anyway, my hunny had planned a nice weekend getaway for just the 2 of us. No kids no dogs, no worries. So we decide to go wander the mall and shop for awhile while we wait for the pawn shops to open. He keeps disappearing while I'm browsing. After awhile, we leave and start hitting the pawn shops. We pull into the parking lot, he comes around to help me out of the truck, (it's very icy out) and as I'm starting to jump out of the truck, he tells me " wait, I have something for you". He pulls the ring box out of his pocket and asks me if I will marry him again. Of course I say yes, but then we start laughing. How many people get engaged in the parking lot of a pawn shop?!?
Oh geez. I actually just got engaged a little less than a month ago. My fiance and I are both in college so we don't really get much time with just the two of us or even much romance for that matter. Anyways, it was a few days before Valentine's day so I was expecting something, but I knew he wouldn't do it on the day and therefore was expecting it on the 13th. The entire day of the 9th he had been acting very strange and would always fight for my attention. Early in the afternoon he had taken me to check my mail. Once we started heading up the stairs he asked me if I wanted to take the elevator. He seemed really pushy and nervous, but I said no because I was trying to lose some weight and it always smells terrible in the elevator! Later that night while we were eating dinner with my friends, I decided to leave early to go to the bathroom. Once we got out of the dining hall he asked if I would "go with him". I was a little confused but agreed. He stood with his hands in his pockets and just said, "I've been wanted to do this all days but you wouldn't let me!" Then he rumaged through his pocket, pulled out the box and got down on one knee. Then opened the box and said "Oh wait, is it in there straight?" I just laughed and then he asked. I didn't really say yes at first, I more of just made stupid whiney squicky noises that I guess were words. Then I finally said yes, gave him a big hug and rushed to the window to show my friends. They yelled at me at first for disturbing them, then when they got it everyone freaked. All in all, the whole day was very out of the ordinary and not very creative, but I love him to death anyway.
Well my fiance is a firefighter & we had been together 1 yr & half. Not to long but felt like forever because we knew from the begining that we would get married, we were lookin at rings after 2 months. He wanted me to get my own car & liscense before he would propose (I didnt get my liscense til I was 20.) So I knew that after I had done that it would be any time cause he had been looking & saving up for one. So we went out to celebrate me gettin that done, & we were excited talking about bein engaged & he made a reference to fireworks, obviously meanin 4th of July. I just put it aside & waited. ( this was in april).
So 4th of July comes around & he had to work at the firestation, so he tells me to wear exactly/just bout the same thing as I was wearing the night we met at the firestation(i had to do a paper on firefightin & i knew him thru a friend...he had also pursued me with no avail for months & had finally givin up when i needed this favor) so I put on the same thing & headed to the firestation, ate dinner with the guys, & had plans for us to go up in the ladder truck (bucket) & watch the fireworks from around the area like we did the year before, but the sky looked really wicked & the radar showed a huge storm commin & my FI was like uhmm ill be right back come on guys & i sit & wait & hear the truck bein set up & im like uhmm why are we doin this?its not dark...theres not fireworks...& hes like jus come on (i knew & that confirmed it...but played dumb) so we go up in the bucket 110 feet up in the air & we look around & he was so nervous & hes like well this isnt how i imagined or planned it but i cant wait any longer to do this...& he told me to look at the lightening so i did & i turn around & hes on one knee & i see the ring & hes like "i had planned to say alot more, but i dont want us to get struck so....casey would you do me the pleasure of bein my wife? " & i of course said yes & we were so happy & we watched the storm rollin in & took some pics & got down since it was sprinklin. We got down & everyone already knew & had congrates & right when they got the truck back in it started pourin down rain. So we sat in the bay & watched the rain on the street baskin in our newly enaged glow )
its jus funny cause he had planned a really romantic proposal with fireworks up in the air & sweet nothings, but we had one of the worse storms ever but he still made it happen & still made it special.
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Well after dinner, we came home. I took a bath and got ready for bed while he played video games. His mom (yes we live with her for now) came home with groceries. I was helping her bring them in when my phone went off, saying I had something set on my calendar. I usually only set TV shows on it, so I checked to see what was coming on, and it said WILL YOU MARRY ME!!!!!!! And then right there in his kitched in my pajamas, he proposed.
Not too embarassing, but try having your picture taken by his mom with a red (crying) face and pajamas, with your hair piled up in a mess.
It's not embarassing, but it is a little funny what happened next... We had to drive five hours home after the proposal so off we went. An hour later, we were in the middle of the worst thunderstorm ever. Hail was rushing down the highway in huge rivers of water. Thunder was shaking the car. My fiance looked at me and said "I think God dissapproves of the engagement." I laughed it off, but the next day I ended up really sick and in the hospital. Two weeks later, we finally got celebrate. Maybe God really was pissed...
EDIT: I'm totally healthy now - it's okay to laugh about it
So cut to me sitting on my computer after working 11 hrs at a retail job. I'm not a drinker and he brings me out a glass of wine and says, "I think your gonna need this." I'm thinking what could possibly be going wrong that I would need alcohol! I looked at him like he has 2 heads and I put the glass down & refuse to touch it. So he tells me to close my eyes and I hear him going through things behind me. Now I'm starting to get a clue, but can't believe it. I hear him walk around me to the front ( I had turned my chair to look at him when he brought the wine.) He tells me to open my eyes and is on one knee with the ring. He says all the sweet romantic things and puts the ring on my finger and all I can say is, "Are you joking!" I mean it's been 12 yrs and he's anti-marriage! I'm saying it over and over, not as in no, but as in I really never thought it was coming and can't get it into my head!
Instead of waiting for a real response he then proceeds to tell me about his shopping trip for the ring and goes on for 5-10 minutes! Not because he is selfish or anything, just because he is as excited as a little kid (it was so cute!) Then we're hugging and he's still talking. It finally dawned on him that I hadn't (didn't really have a chance to) answered! So he says, "Is that a yes?" I say Yes and he then continues talking! LOL He didn't even really absorb it though because a few weeks later he says, "You know you never did say yes." I just had to laugh and remind him!
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So we ate and he left the room and came back and proposed and I said yes... but the funny part is about 2 hours afterward he broke out in hives! They were all over his body and kept him up all night (I had to go to the convenience store at 3 am to get him Benadryl and then they progressively got worse throughout the next day and made their way to his face, so I took him to the ER, because I was afraid they would close up his throat. SO then he had to get a shot in his butt! The doctor said it was most likely stress induced since he hadn't eaten or drank anything out of the ordinary.
Keep in mind that he has never broke out in hives before and is a real "man's man." Definitely something we all laugh about and I'm sure it'll come up in the best man's speech!
This is my first "unofficial" propose but its funny. This is going to sound odd though. My FI and I always had a joke about it not being love until you pick each other's nose. (yeah dont ask!) So one night we were at our favorite spot by the water overlooking the beautiful city skyline. We just like to sit there, watch boats go by and talk on his nights off so it wasnt anything out of the ordinary. So he brings me up right near the water and is holding me and kissing them then gets down on one knee, takes my hand, and asks "will you pick my nose?" I started cracking up and said "yes baby of course". He didnt have the ring but it was his funny way of asking me to marry him before he "officially" asked me to marry him.
Before a friend of mine and I left for vacation, he called and left me a voicemail but my phone never recieved it. The next voicemail said, "Well I guess you didn't like that idea... Have a good vacation." This left me perplexed. I had no clue what the hell he was talking about. He got ahold of me again after vacation and we were chatting on the phone. He was telling me all about how he screwed up and he finally realized that I was the one for him. That we weren't getting any younger and we should eventually be having children. I was curious as all get out wondering where this was going. Finally he said "If I knock you up, I gotta marry you. So what do you think?" I know, real romantic.
Basically 2 years later, we have a son and we're planning our wedding. Not exactly the order I was hoping for but I wouldn't change it one bit. I ask him all the time if he's sure about this and he just reminds me of our little "deal" I have no doubt we're made for each other. I couldn't see anyone else putting up with his or my bs!! ♥
My (now husband) and I were planning our wedding before the proposal. We had even booked our venue so I needed a ring so we could announce it. He loves to surprise, and is very good at it, so I knew he would get me good. Question was when... So the story unfolds.
We were at the mall after work. Middle of the week, literally a Wednesday. We had dinner in the food court and he mentions the photo booth close by. I wasn't up for a picture this time (it wasn't unusual for us to take one) but he insisted. In we went.
Out we came. I'm waiting for the strip to print. He's tying his shoe. He tells me the photo is done and to take it out, still tying his shoe. I tell him it hasn't been three minutes yet. Sure enough, there was the strip. I pull it out and it's a set of photos of him holding signs saying "Kristina" "Will You" "Marry Me?" and then the ring. (A friend had inserted it while we were in the booth)
Stunned, I'm looking at him holding a ring, down on one knee. I kept asking "Seriously, right now?" It's slowly sinking in. Then came a giant cheer from the level above us. Friends and family crowded around the railing staring down on us.
Startled, I ran back in the booth. Seriously. And it's all on tape.
I finally told him yes sometime later that night. I loved my proposal, but now we're married and it's still sinking in! lol I wouldn't have it any other way
I've told it to friends and they laughed its funny to me.
To make matters worse, when we got back to his place, he had the reciept sitting right on the dresser. So I saw it.. (of course he didn't know that!)
Then I kept expecting it.. and finally two days later he put the ring on his little puppy's (pug) collar and sent her to me. I pet her for a few minutes and didnt notice the ring! Eventually he just held her up to me and i saw it!
(Secretly I always wanted the knee proposal, but he didn't). It was still special though!
Also.. Josh's hands were shaking so much when he handed me the ring, I thought it was really cute that he was so nervous!
Around Christmas time, he asked me if I wanted to know what I was getting for Christmas. I said no, because I love surprises. We went Christmas shopping that night and got drinks after, where he told me.
He send me a picture message of the ring a day or so later because he couldn't keep the secret.
On December 23, my folks had him over for dinner (I'm in college so I was on break and staying at their place) and I took my fiance and I's dog out to go potty.
WHILE OUR DOG WAS TAKING A DUMP, he gave me the ring. It was a picturesque family moment and will always crack me up
My Fiance and I have know each other since 6th grade...we dated briefly in high school and he was best friends with my male cousin......after high school he went off to the Marines and we have not seen each other for 10 years....one day we met each other at a stop light.....both coming home from work and since he has lost track of my cousin he asked me to take his number so I can give it to my cousin. 2 weeks later on Memorial Day I'm hanging out with my coworker who happend to have dated a Marine when she realized where I grew up she asked me if I knew Mike. I said yeah...and we dated in HS, and I just randomly saw him 2 weeks ago and have his number...let me see if he wants to come by (I was throwing a Memorial Day BBQ that afternoon)....he came by, never left and 5 months later he proposed by making me think he was going to break up with me! He told me to come by his house right after work, which he never did because he always come over my house....so I went over there and he looked all nervous and I was worried something was wrong and that I did something...and then he asked me to marry him...I sat down on the bed and laughed and said "are you serious" and then said yes....I always thought I would cry when the one asked me to marry him...instead I laughed......6 months to go!!!!!!
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My fiance proposed last October. He wanted to go window shopping at the shopping center where we met (right outside a movie theater by a bench) and said "I want to stop by our spot" on the way there so I was suspicious. Well, we went into a store that was beside it but when we walked out he walked right past it so I thought that I was wrong. Then when we walked out of the next store I thought we were leaving but he grabbed my hand and led me to that spot. Here is the cute but embarrassing part: he asked me to recreate the moment we met because he said it was love at first sight: I walked around the corner and up to the bench. Then he asked me to do it again! Then he got down on one knee and asked me if I would spend the rest of my life with him as his wife.
Funny part: Even though I didn't know for sure when the proposal was going to happen, I actually knew the day he bought the ring because I had to stay home on his day off, the day he picked to go buy it, because I had the worst case of pink eye! He had to make up some excuse about "christmas shopping" (in the beginning of October people!) so he could leave the house. I was miserable and kept thinking that I didn't want him to propose that day and not be able to see my ring. He told me after we got engaged that he put the ring on the table just to see if I was faking my pink eye and that if I noticed it he was going to propose!
So DH and I bought a condo together. At some point when we were in escrow, we started talking about getting engaged. The conversation ended with DH saying "Well, let's live together, and in another year or 2 if we've got a decent savings, I'll propose then and we can immediately start planning the wedding from there". To me, that meant "Ring's coming in 2 years" and I put the thought of engagement out of my mind-it didn't bother me, because to me it made sense.
We go through with our closing and then we go to our place to see it and open the door, and the living room is filled with flowers. There's even a giant heart made our of roses in the middle of the living room. So I'm squee-ing over how sweet he is for doing this for me, and how I've got the "best boyfriend ever" and blah, blah, blah, when he stops me short and says "Just listen for a second". And then he gets on one knee.
And I'm thinking "His shoe is untied?". Yeah. I really thought that.
Then he pulls a ring box out of his pocket.
And I think "Aw, he's being cute, he must have made the new keys already". Yeah ... I'm dumb.
And then he asked me to marry him.
Then it finally clicks "Idiot, he's proposing". So I started crying and nodding and I managed to squeak out a "Uh-huh" before completely forgetting how to speak English for a good 20 minutes.
Apparently, he had the whole thing planned since we started house hunting ... and everybody and their mother knew it was coming except for me.
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The short (and only funny version) is:
We were on a ranch in Arizona, and there was this dog which we were playing fetch with. FI got down on one knee and gave the whole spiel. I was totally over-taken with what was happening, rationality left me, and instead of saying "yes" I grabbed the ring and put it on myself!!! (oops...FI looked sad when he realized what I did...so I gave it back to him and let him put it on)
Well, we were hugging and kissing afterwards, and hadn't thought about that dog. He was our only observer, and was whining and crying the entire time. I had to take time out of our joy just to throw the stupid stick again. FI took a video of it, just to show people how funny this dog was. He would NOT leave us alone!
1 week later I finally confront him about it, since he very well knew I was joking, and tell him that his lack of response hurt my feelings. In my head, I'm thinking about how evasive he's been with me lately and how he fights me at every turn about finally getting our finances combined since we were living together for over a year at that point. I'm thinking he doesn't really see a future with me
At some point, I ask him if I'm really what he wants, if he has a plan in place already or if it's more of an "eventually" type of idea in his head. He responds with a shoulder shrug and "I don't know, eventually?"
Tears. Sobbing. I couldn't form words.
As I'm crying, face buried in my hands, I can hear him yelling frantically
"NO BABY! NO! Stop crying!" and fumbling to get across the room to me. He was on his knees in front of me begging me to stop crying saying "Here, LOOK!" as he's opening a small purple ring box. I refused to look. I didn't want our moment to happen that way and neither did he. I made him put it away and he began explaining himself:
Yes, he'd been evasive with me, hiding money, lying about where he'd been and getting defensive about it, all because he was driving to a jewelry store and hour away to make payments on my ring. And his blank stare when I jokingly proposed was because the ring was in his pocket at that very moment because he had tried to propose to me a few hours earlier as we were driving across the Mackinac Bridge ... but I was on the phone with my dad.
After talking for an hour we finally decided the next morning would be more appropriate since the cat was now out of the bag. That idea lasted 10 minutes. Out came the ring again and this time I looked.
Our engagement story is just funny because I didn't realize what was going on. We're a pretty laid-back couple, and my FH always told me that he would propose when I least expected it. I came home early on a Friday from work and he had a tight agenda planned - washer/dryer shopping, dinner, and finally going to see Avitar. I noticed that he had given our dog a bath, but she wasn't wearing her collar. He told me to grab her collar and put it on her. I did that and he kept staring at me. He then told me to go back to the island in the kitchen and that there was something else over there. I went back and didn't see anything out of the ordinary, so I blew off his comment and sat back down. He told me to go back over and look again. So, I got up again and look and finally saw the ring box hiding. I asked it it was what I thought it was, and he told me to open it to find out. Sure enough, it was my ring
It was a perfect engagement for us - definitely caught me off guard and surprised me!!
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So 4th of July comes around & he had to work at the firestation, so he tells me to wear exactly/just bout the same thing as I was wearing the night we met at the firestation(i had to do a paper on firefightin & i knew him thru a friend...he had also pursued me with no avail for months & had finally givin up when i needed this favor) so I put on the same thing & headed to the firestation, ate dinner with the guys, & had plans for us to go up in the ladder truck (bucket) & watch the fireworks from around the area like we did the year before, but the sky looked really wicked & the radar showed a huge storm commin & my FI was like uhmm ill be right back come on guys & i sit & wait & hear the truck bein set up & im like uhmm why are we doin this?its not dark...theres not fireworks...& hes like jus come on (i knew & that confirmed it...but played dumb) so we go up in the bucket 110 feet up in the air & we look around & he was so nervous & hes like well this isnt how i imagined or planned it but i cant wait any longer to do this...& he told me to look at the lightening so i did & i turn around & hes on one knee & i see the ring & hes like "i had planned to say alot more, but i dont want us to get struck so....casey would you do me the pleasure of bein my wife?
its jus funny cause he had planned a really romantic proposal with fireworks up in the air & sweet nothings, but we had one of the worse storms ever but he still made it happen & still made it special.