My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting engaged for months in fact he already has the ring in hand. However we never have time durring "normal hours" together because he has a four year old and 2 jobs. With his blessing ... and my fathers (he has already asked) I have begun planning. But going wedding dress shopping without a ring and a fiance brings up questions. We have set our date for May 19th and it is essential to begin the planning NOW! Any advice? Thank you!