So my fiance and I just got engaged, part of me wants to shout it to the world and tell everyone I see, but part of me doesn't want to tell anyone because I'm afraid of the judgement I'll get from my family and friends. From the beginning of the relationship my friends have been nay sayers about my fiance. They sit and tell me that I"m making a mistake and moving too fast and all that kind of crap because we haven't been together that long. But who are they to tell me what I should or shouldn't do. They haven't even met him to even know what he's like and it just pisses me off. I've had one friend completely shut me out of her life because I didn't listen to her when she told me I should take it slower. We don't think we're rushing, or taking things too fast. So what right does anyone have to say anything about how fast we've taken things?