getting engaged was a dream come true that i knew would be happening soon. so i am already prepared to start planning and intended the engagement to be less than a year. after my FI popped the question he informed me that his best friend is about to be deployed overseas so the wedding date would have to depend on when he would be home. today he told me the wedding could be sometime around march 15, 2011. 1) that is a longer engagement than i'd wanted- we got engaged on march 11, 2010. 2) i am a teacher and therefore cannot just take time off in the middle of march! i'd have to get married on saturday and go back to work monday- not my ideal situation. also, my FI's best friend has been a bit of a flake in the past, so it makes me uncomfortable to plan my whole schedule around him. i KNOW that my FI will agree to whatever i want, he is such an amazing man. but i don't want to take advantage of his loving heart just to get my way. what are y'all's thoughts?