How does everyone feel about throwing an engagement party? Is this really a common event? Do you throw one for yourself or is this something that someone else is supposed to throw for you? I personally don't see the point in throwing myself and my fiance a party. I think that the bridal shower, bach parties and the wedding and reception would be plenty. It just sems to me like an engagement party would be an added and unnecessary expense. Would it be ok not to have one?