So my boyfriend of over 3 years proposed to me after we closed on our brand new home just last friday!!! I was so surprised and shocked as we just spent tons of money closing and saving for this house! I am still estatic a week later

Now the problem I'm finding is everyones first question is "when's the date" am I lost and not aware that I'm supposed to have this already? or is everyone just so excited? when is a good time to pick a date?