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Ughh Family Problems

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Well the problem is, most my family hates him and I don't know what to do. I'm afraid I'm gonna plan a big beautiful wedding and not many people will show up, also stinks because his family is down South. What could I do to get my family to except my relationship more and atleast be there for me instead of turning there backs because I'm doing what makes me happy. Advice would gladly be appreciated..
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    edited December 2012
    I need more information to give you advice. Why does your family dislike your FI?
     
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_ughh-family-problems?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:683Discussion:d783bbdf-8c76-446c-97f5-7957d87191e0Post:0d024314-fe4f-4c46-b69e-6fc8ae4af17f">Re: Ughh Family Problems</a>:
    [QUOTE]Perhaps it's not that they dislike your fiance.  They might be worried about you, and gun-shy because of your prior abusive marriage.  It's very difficult to watch someone you love being abused, especially a family member.  It can be very difficult for them, as well as you, to trust again. You are going through a divorce as well as embarking up on an engagement.  They may also feel that you are jumping into another relationship too soon.   
    Posted by RetreadBride[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Unless there is something specific that has happened with your current fiance, I am betting this is it. 

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  • xxCortniexxxxCortniexx member
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    Well my fiancee has a "bad" record and most my family disowned him from the start. Some won't even listen to anything I have to say because they will not give him a chance at all. Me and him have had our issues too but when I left him, he seen how he treated me and he has become an amazing man that I wouldn't trade for anyone. My fiancee used to be controlling and my family feels that I'm sticking up for him now and still being controlled but I'm not. He's sweeter, more caring, loving, were even moving into our own apartment on the first. I'm so excited, I really do love this man. MY biggest problem is for some reason even though I've been married before I never even loved my ex husband as much as I do my fiancee. I am getting into counseling and I plan on getting into counseling with him too. With my ex husband we got engaged and about 6 months later we just woke up one day and went to the JP without like anyone knowing and just got married. I wasn't happy though, I cried like all day because so many people were dissapointed in me. What if I do this again?? Ughh I am so confused with so much but one thing I am for sure about is that I do wanna marry my fiancee and spend the rest my life with him. More feedback would be appreciated..
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  • thejucheideathejucheidea member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_ughh-family-problems?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:683Discussion:d783bbdf-8c76-446c-97f5-7957d87191e0Post:c328b1b1-3273-479c-b10f-b62059bcfdc5">Re: Ughh Family Problems</a>:
    [QUOTE]More feedback would be appreciated..
    Posted by xxCortniexx[/QUOTE]
    Slow your damn roll.

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