So, we are almost ready to pick a date at our venue. We are definitely doing a Thursday because the price is in our budget. We want either Sept. or Oct. of 2012. My finace said Sept. 20th would be good, however, my Birthday is Sept. 25th. I guess I didn't want my Anniversary to be 5 days before my Birthday a few years down the road. I mean, it is nice when special occasions are spread out I think. Am I thinking too much into the date? I thought that the first Thursday in the month or the second might be ok, either that or we go into Oct. The only problem with Oct, is that I am in RI and sometimes it can be a bit cold out, we are having an outside ceremony. What do you think?