I am newly engaged, it's been 2 months, and I am still on Cloud 9! We have been together for almost 5 years.
I need some help ladies! We have already set a date-- 6/14/2014. It seems so far away but I keep reminding myself that 2012 is over in 2 months and it will be here before I know it!
I have not yet gone to try on wedding dresses but I wanted to do that and have my bridal party try on bridesmaids dresses at the same time--- which was just a thought. I am stuck on who I want to be in my bridal party!
My fiance has a total of 4 maybe 6 poeple that would be on his side (2 brothers, 2 friends and 2 of his nephews) I, on the other hand, have a bigger family! I have 2 sisters, a sister in law, 5 nieces and nephew.
My thinking was to have 4 of my nieces as my bridesmaids (we are all very close), my nephew as my ring bearer and my youngest niece as my flower girl. 2 of the other girls I would want are friends on my fiances' side ( 1 of his brothers girlfriend and 1of his friends' wife). I am stuck on who I want as my MOH.
I really didnt want to have my sisters and SIL- not only would it be a huge bridal party- but my older sister didn't talk to me for almost 2 years (partly because she doesnt like my FI as he is friends with her ex) and there's a huge family feud going on with my sisters, brother & SIL ( my older sister, bro & SIL are not speaking to my other sister). His best man is his older brother---- My one best friend lives up in the PA Lehigh Valley and we dont really talk that often now but we've been friends ever since we were in elementary school. My other best friend is a girl that I have worked with the last 2 years but I really feel her and I were sisters in a past life---- its scary how much her and I have in common.
I just dont know what to do---- I have talked to my fiance about it but he has no clue, love him and all but he was no help, lol.
Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you everyone!