Hello all, this is my first post. I really wasn't quite sure if there was anyone to ask about this. I became recently engaged over the holidays. During this time, I found out some unsettling news that my fiance has done hallugenics a couple times in the past, while we were dating. I've always maintained an anti drug stance, and I feel betrayed. I love her so much, but am so hurt, and i don't know how I should feel and have no one else to talk about this with. I love her so incredibly much. She has never said she wouldn't do them again, and if I give her an ultimatum I feel like I am a horrible person, as she is her own person and can do what she wants. The drugs are all natural, and not the type manufactured in a lab. This is the only thing wrong that this girl has ever done, how can I get over it?