So I just graduated from college with my Bachelor's degree. I am working on getting certified while also completing paperwork for a substitute teaching job in a few different schools, as well as working at a daycare I have been at for over a year. My fiance has a full-time job that pays great! The problem is.. I feel useless and he makes me feel like I can't do any planning because I am not funding for anything, and he wants to get the catering, etc. paid off before I start planning other things. I want to get invitations made and bought, as well as my dress bought and other things that need to be done before finalizing payments for other important necessities. I understand that I do not have a lot of money to contribute to these items, but our parents are helping out by taking over the florist, photography, and videography funds. What do I do to cope??