I will be going back to school a few months after we are married. I will be studying for the GRE (entrance exam for grad school) during the entire planning of the wedding and after the wedding. I am taking a Kaplan prep course to help me build the confidence I need to finally take the test during wedding time. Our wedding is on Friday and the Kaplan class meets on Sundays- meaning I have to be in class 2 days after the wedding. For this reason and others (financial) we find it better to just stay in a nice hotel Friday and Saturday nights and do a bigger honeymoon to celebrate our 1 year anniversary. Is this lame?? Have you heard of anyone else ever doing this??