So my FI and I just recently got engaged and told our families. The problem is that most of them want us to wait till we are finished with college. I will graduate in May but my FI isn't sure it could be anywhere from 2-5 more years of school. we have already been together 4 years and I don't think it should matter when and want to get married sometime 2013. The person I worry about breaking this info to is my future MIL because she is using our engagement to hurry him into finishing school which I also think is wrong. Does anyone have any advice on how I can tell her this without her completely freaking out? Or is it a better decision to follow her advice and wait?