This is NWR, but I think we need all the good vibes we can get right now.
I was running out the door, late, when I heard our cat making sad noises in the bathroom. He's toilet trained, which made it easy to see that there was a lot of blood in his urine. His glands are swollen, something's wrong. Our vet is 35 minutes away so I called my mom, who lives near the vet, and asked her to make an appointment so I could start driving (no cell reception along the way).
We get to the vet and he's examined, samples taken, etc. He has an infection in his urinary tract, both red and white blood cells in his urine, and the vet's worried he has bladder stones and may need surgery to get them removed. What's really scary is that they could cause a potentially fatal blockage at any moment, and like I said our vet is 35 minutes away so it would take us a long time to get him to emergency surgery if he needs it! Hopefully the antibiotics do the trick and there are no stones!
In addition to bladder issues, his gums are so infected that they recommend we get all his teeth and the surrounding diseased tissued removed within the next three months. We've known for a long time that Mr Mewton needs to get all his teeth removed before he turns four, but he's only just about to turn 3 so I was shocked to hear that they'd gotten so bad so quickly! He needs to be on antibiotics for a few weeks before the surgery can happen, so the vet recommends that when we go back in ten days to re-check his bladder we also draw blood and schedule the surgery. If he has bladder stones, we can do both surgeries at once, which is apparently exciting to our vet.
The gum surgery will cost us double our monthly mortgage payment. We've been saving for it for 18 months, but other recent emergencies (like hail destroying all our windows and insurance not covering any of it) combined with my current unemployment have drained that account almost completely. If he needs bladder surgery as well, that adds another month and a half's worth of our mortgage.
Our cat is our baby, and we'll find a way to get him the care he needs, but UGH!!! There goes the honeymoon we couldn't afford to take anyway!