So I'm doing school in NY, my FI is in Japan with the military until the end of Feb in 2012, which will be the next time I get to see him in person. Our wedding is in VA where it is most convient for everybody. But I'm not going to have a lot of time to go back there and get things planned. I have my externship in FL from Oct-Feb. We're getting married in July of '12...and I won't get to go back to VA before the wedding for more than two days after Sept of this year...any advice???