Planning this whole freaken wedding! When I started planning I missed the memo that said that a wedding ISNT at all about the bride and the groom. Apparently, it's about everyone else and NO ONE wants the same things as everyone else. Sorry but we can't make everyone happy....oh and if we don't accommodate people-then they won't show.Nice.If I had to do it all over again I would plan a simple DW with just Mark and I...and maybe a select few that actually WANT to be a part of this.