So I have a group of about 4 or 5 really close gfs...we have all been friends from about anywhere to 8 to 13 years. We don't see each other everyday but we will all be BM's in each others weddings as well as they will be in mine. 2 of the girls A & J have 2 boys the same age and are in each others kindergarten class and all that....Well A had a baby and then married the babies father all around when she was about 19. J also had a baby around the same time only she was about 21 but she did not get married to the father. Well A and her husband split up after about 2-3 years of marriage and continued to raise the kid separately but together. J split up with baby daddy while her kid was still an infant. So a couple months ago J started fooling around with A's ex husband. And she told me and I felt really bad I couldn't tell A. Even though A is in a relationship and someone else and she and him not together and she doesn't care about him. Well a couple weeks ago J found out she was pregnant! So today we told A what was going on and she seriously was like "What the hell are you thinking J? He can barely take care of the kid we already have" And J said "A, I am really sorry and it was a complete mistake and I just had to tell you before you found out from someone else." And A said " That's ok J, you are one of my best friends and I am not going to let this idiot come between us, but I am really in shock and weirded out" That's not to say A wasnt really upset but I was completely surprised and proud of her and how she handled it. Seriously my friends are such damn drama it should be a TV show.