wanna say just forget it...

desi2002

this is sooo stressful! I don't think I can continue to do this nine more months! I want to give up. Anyone need a dress?

mrs.payne2010

take a breath....now whats going on??

desi2002

I hate everything. I hate my venue, I hate my dress, I hate the whole hassle of trying to find a hotel and wondering where the guys will get dressed and how the photographer will take pictures of both of us in different places.... i want to scream.

I want to give up, i feel hopeless ... hubby STILL doesn't have a job, so i feel like all the weight is on me...

idk if this is a phase... maybe i need to take a step back...

Kasi80

Take a break from the stress.  Take a week or so off to relax.  Once you get back in the planning mindset start off with one thing to accomplish.  Once that's all figured out move to the next.  Don't do all of it at once.

breleficent

I agree, just take a break from it all for a little bit. Come back and if you still feel the same way then do it.

emilypeach

i went through that phase too desi! it seems easier but just remember how worth it it all will be. i agree with pps that taking a break always helps.

mrs.payne2010

gotta find all the positive in it and realize that it outweighs the bad right now.... also lean on your vendors for help too. i would ask the photographer their oppinion on how to get pics of both of you. they ususally will have a good game plan as they probably been through every scenario possible. dont worry everything will turn out fine. if you need my help dont be afraid to ask : )

KirstenAlecia

Desi....Isnt your venue the Mitten Building? They are giving you trouble?

ladylulu

Desi?! Why do you hate your dres?!!! Thats a HORRIBLE feeling!!

I had to buy a "maternity" dress last minute because my dream dress didnt fit (my baby belly popped lol) ... but you know what, regardless of what I was wearing that day my husband married me and everyone said i looked beautiful... and in the end it was how I wanted to feel, not how the dress made me feel...

Just breathe honey, look at ALL that you have done already, might not seem l ike a lot, but it all has meaning!!!

Best of Luck!!

emilypeach

desi love your new siggy too!! looks like everythings going to be beautiful!!

mc108

Ditto PP, you just need to step back. It can get SO overwhelming! I had my moments too-as did many of the OMH's that still hang out here. You'll recapture that excitement for planning again, and with nine months left you still have more than enough time to get everything done.

I'm loving all your ideas (that I've seen in your various siggys)- I think it's going to be amazing in the end.

I'm sorry you're feeling stressed and so unhappy right now

desi2002

thanks so much ladies. Thanks for all the well wishes and support.