I don't want to sound greedy or needy, but I would like to have a bridal shower, and so far, no one has offered or even asked about throwing one for me! I am over 40 and so is my fiancee, and we have a home already. Do you think people think "what could they possibly need??" My MOH and bridesmaids are located in different areas, and may not even see one another until a few days before the wedding. My family lives out of state. Am I off base here? Should I ask for one?