I guess you can say I am new. I joined the knot when my son got married last year, but started lurking again when I got engaged in December. I am 43 and my Fiance is 55. We are getting married on Oct 13, 2012. We have both been married before. I originally expected us to elope or have a tiny ceremony, but we are now looking at 40 guests, a church ceremony and a nice reception. The planning has me excited but a bit frazzled!!