I have always been a career-oriented person and never really found that guy until four years age. Now that I am engage and planning for my special events (wedding in Hawaii and reception in South Carolina are on separate days) associates and distant rellatives are coming out of the woodwork to be invited. This is my first-time getting married and I do not have any children. This is my FI third time getting married, but he does not have any children either. We are limiting the relatives with children to the reception so that is not the issue. The issue is that everyone thinks they are getting an invitation to our reception,. Even people who did not invite me to their wedding throughout the years. They are going to be a lot of individuals not invited to the party, how can I let them down with ease, if possible?