I am going to try to keep this as brief as possible.
Both me and FI are 43 so a lot of our friends are already married with kids (many including mine who are in college and some who are in high school but some who are still in grade school).
Want to invite my close friend's children regardless of age because we actually have relationships with these kids.
Will have our younger nieces and nephews in wedding party (6, 9 and 10).
FI has lots of 1st cousins with kids. If I open it up to their kids we are talking a LOT more kids, some who I couldn't even pick out of a line-up.
The big issue is the age cut-off relationship cut-off dilemma. Some of the cousins kids are older than some of my friends kids. But I need to draw the line somewhere. Then I also have a nephew with young kids and FI has one 1st cousin who is about 4.
Is anyone else out there facing this issue? Part of me says do whatever we want, part of me worries about being rude.
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