40-Plus Brides

Today....

Today, I wish I had stuck to 1 attendant only.
Why? Because I've done it all anyway. That my "shower" is a jack and jill given by my mother and FMIL. That they never ask if I need anything. That when the rare occasion occured that I did ask I was told they were busy. That excuses are being made and they won't be attending my jack and jill.That they haven't offered help to the moms. That I am supposed to accept this and "not take it personally". That when I have an emotion I am greeted with snide text messages.
Yep, today I am having a pity party.You're all invited. Well, all those who aren't my bridesmaids.

And this is my first and only wedding. I thought I wanted what the 20 something do, except the garter, bouquet toss stuff....
Today... i was wrong about that too.
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