An old thread on the SW board just resurfaced, about resources for wedding planning. Here's a list of books I used, when we started to pull together our plan at the beginning of 2010. I also referred to Real Simple Weddings (magazine) and stylemepretty.com.
What other resources do you recommend for 40-Plus brides??
The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams: Planning Together for Less Stress and More Joy by Judith Sherven, James Sniechowski
Simple Stunning Weddings: Designing and Creating Your Perfect Celebration by Karen Bussen, Ellen Silverman
The Wedding Guide for the Grownup Bride: Getting Married When You're Old Enough to Know What You're Doing
by Shelly Christiansen