Ok, so there are a few things that have come up recently from friends or family that I wanted to get your opinions on (and Jodi's answers reminded me). I've looked at etiquette but it's all over the place and while I know I'd get some very honest opinions from P & E I'd rather just post here since I'm not necessarily looking for technical etiquette answers, but more general opinions for our specific scenario.1. Money Dance--> This has been done at several weddings of family members on one side in the past. I'm being encouraged to do so. They usually don't actually pin the money on the bride so her dress doesn't get messed with. At the weddings I've been to I've thought it was funny and/or cute but I'm not sure how I feel about it. I know there's a lot of debate on this but I'm interested to hear your opinions.2. Tip jar on the bar--> FI recently suggested that we put a pretty tip jar on the bar for our wedding. Now to clarify, we are doing open bar with beer, wine, and a specialty drink and it's at a venue where we bring in all of our own stuff. I know traditionally the bride and groom pay gratuities and I don't have a problem with that but FI insists we need the tip jar. He insists because a huge majority of our guests are in the service industry and he knows they'll probably want to tip and he thinks we should have a place for them to put the tips rather than handing them to the bartender. If we did this it would be a pretty bucket or something that said "Thank you." It would NOT say "tip jar." I've also read very different opinions on this. Any thoughts?