Sorry I have been MIA, i've been out of town so much! But I got my invite to my first Bridal Shower in the Mail and I'm so excited. I saw Britt's post below about registry staulking and I have been doing the same thing. one of my bridesmaid just said she is gunna throw a couples shower for us two weeks before the wedding so im even more excited about that. I told FI and he said oh well we might be going on our Bachelor Party that weekend I said not anymore he said well obviously the bachelor party is more important that a shower. I said give me a break pick another weekend. You can definitely see his priorities ! I met with my wedding planner last night and I feel like its going to be here before I know it so I have got to get on top of things. She is so awesome and is going to try to tackle dealing with the University Club to find somewhere else to put their ugly chairs so I can have an official space for cocktail hour. And Ive been talking with my photographer I'm so excited! she is going to bring another photographer to the wedding and she is going to do a photobooth. She is bring an awesome black and white damask backdrop and I'll have a dry erase board and people can write messages and get their picture taken. She said she did it at another wedding and was awesome and then make a small cute little book of all our guests and their pictures. Im off to staulk my registry again to see if anything knew was bought