Well we are coming to find out people are not getting their invitations in the mail. It has no rhyme or reason to it. Because people that live right by these people got theirs so I dont get it. But im stressing out going through making sure everyone else got it because its not easy to just pop another one in the mail because my envelopes are black and my calligrapher has the silver pens and extra envelopes with her in Gainesville. Oh LORd! So advice to everyone who hasnt sent their invitations out. Make sure everyone gets one by word of mouth. its funny because my best friend who lives like 3 blocks away from me didnt even get her shower invitation but somehow got the wedding invitation. The Mail sucks!