So I got engaged in May of 08. We were supposed to get married this past May but money issues stopped that. So we started seriously planning on getting married in June of this year but found out I was pregnant in January. I am only 8 weeks along. I didn't want to be huge for my wedding so we decided we didn't want to wait another year. We bumped it up to April 3rd. I am stupid and bought my dress when I was only 5 weeks pregnant. Now it doesn't fit. This is my third pregnancy and with my previous pregnancies I didn't show until like 16 weeks and even then it wasn't that noticeable. I am not exactly showing, just fat and bloated. So I know the dress needs to be altered but I am worried that they will either not be able to let it out enough or I am gonna look preggo in it......
On top of that I am PAAAALLLLEEEEE. It's bad. I had every intention of going to the tanning salon before the wedding but now that I am preggo that is not an option. I would do a spray tan but I did that one time before and turned orange. I don't know if it was just the salon I went to or what but I am scared to risk being orange on my wedding yet don't want to look like a ghost, especially since my wedding will be on the beach,......
Any ideas on these issues? I am so upset, It's too late to cancel the wedding because people have already taken off work and made travel plans to get here. There is like no turning back, it's do or die and one month away!