NMWR Question...

christinalau

So this is a not my wedding related question... I was updating my registry and decided to type in an old pal's name. I found out that she is getting married in June. We were roommates and parted on (what I believe to be) not so good terms and I believe it is partly my fault.

Anyway, I want to send a gift but FI thinks it is silly since she never calls or returns my text messages... What do you ladies think?

janedoe1113a

If you want to send a gift, then I say you should.

toblave13

I don't think anything negative can come from you sending a gift. It's a thoughtful gesture so if you want to do it. If she receives it well great, if not then it's not like things can get any worse if you're already not speaking.

greenlikekermit

It can't hurt. Just make sure you aren't expecting anything in return.

christinalau

Ok. I just want to make sure it doesn't seem stalkerish... especially since we have not been talking at all....