I am *hoping* to be in town (in Phoenix) about 11 weeks before our wedding for a friends wedding, fitting, etc. I am wondering (1) is hand delivering invites to family members, wedding party and very close friends ok or tacky and (2) if this is too early to deliver the invites? The reason for doing this is NOT to save on postage, but rather to make absolutely certain that the invites get to these very special guests

Do you think this is ok? Or should I wait a little bit longer to send them out?