HELP!!! Need Honest Opinions!

bells24412

So my close friend and I went out last night to look for something bachlorette like for my bachlorette party next weekend. She said I should look sexy/kind of sl*tty looking and standoutish and out of my comfort zone. I bought this dress, please tell me your honest opinion on what I look like. Should I get another dress?? She said I should keep it, but I don't know:
(Please don't mind my room it is a mess and so isn't my hair!!)

timsflower81

The dress is cute - but I'm having trouble understanding why you should look sl*tty?  Just seems like it would be an invitation for creepers to hit on you... maybe thats the point?    What are you doing for your party?  

butterflyjumper1

do you have a closer up picture?? it's kind of hard to see! but from what I CAN see, you look hot as hell!!

That being said, I don't think you should wear anything you are not comfortable and confident in. I wore a tight stretchy white mini dress with lots of cutouts and boobage to my bach party - but it was surprisingly comfy, since it was stretchy, and I wear mini dresses all the time, so I wasn't out of my comfort zone.

If you are going to be thinking about or worrying about your dress at all while you are partying, I would say, find something else that you are more comfortable in.

bells24412

my friend thinks I should be out of my confort zone since I am pretty conservative in my clothing. It's not about the creepers, she just thinks I should step out of my conservative side just for one night and enjoy what I worked hard on for a year and a half. The dress is comfy and it was super cheap ($13!! @ forever21) FI thinks I should keep it, but anything that shows any skin he wants me to keep lol.

AllyG303

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[QUOTE]do you have a closer up picture?? it's kind of hard to see! but <strong>from what I CAN see, you look hot as hell!! That being said, I don't think you should wear anything you are not comfortable and confident in.</strong> I wore a tight stretchy white mini dress with lots of cutouts and boobage to my bach party - but it was surprisingly comfy, since it was stretchy, and I wear mini dresses all the time, so I wasn't out of my comfort zone. If you are going to be thinking about or worrying about your dress at all while you are partying, I would say, find something else that you are more comfortable in.
Posted by butterflyjumper1[/QUOTE]

<div>This</div>

pillsburyaj

Dang girl! Rock those curves! I think you look great! But if you don't feel comfy, then don't wear it...otherwise you won't be able to relax and enjoy yourself. I agree with PP about not understanding why you need to look s**tty. Wear what you feel good in. :-)

ceglare4

I think you should keep it as long as you're comfortable in it, because it does look cute! But the picture is realllly small.

bells24412

hang on maybe this one will work click on the pic to make it bigger:

michelle11988

It looks really cute from the picture, but I can't get the picture any bigger.  But if you aren't comfortable in it, you will be worried about it all night.

honeybear072012

Holy b**bs bells!!!  You look HOT! 

That being said, are you going to be comfy or are you going to be pulling down that skirt all night or pulling up the top?  I think you can find something out of your 'comfort zone' that might be more you.

littlemoments324

DAHAMN girl!! hahaha Seriously, it looks awesome!!!  But if you aren't comfortable you'll be worried about it all night...I know I would...HOWEVER, once I had some booze in me I don't think I'll be worried about anything...ha ha

michelle11988

That looks awesome on you! But I'm kind of a conservative dresser and I know I would be pulling down that short skirt all night long.

LADY324

Nice Bells rock that cleavage you look great!!  But I agree with the other girls only wear it if you feel confident in it and will enjoy yourself that night without feeling uncomfortable in your dress.  You want to wear something that you feel great in. 

k8888

I just went from six to midnight.

If you're comfortable in it... keep it!!  You look HOT!

And I applaud you for attempting to wear something out of your comfort zone... I don't have have the bells... I mean balls.  Yes, I really did make that terrible joke.

bells24412

Thanks Ladies, for your honest opinions as always this is why I will miss you girls! I am not sure what I am going to do but I think I am going to hang on to it. Plus it was only $13! so I can't go wrong there!

AllyG303

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[QUOTE]Thanks Ladies, for your honest opinions as always<strong> this is why I will miss you girls!</strong> I am not sure what I am going to do but I think I am going to hang on to it. Plus it was only $13! so I can't go wrong there! :)
Posted by bells24412[/QUOTE]

<div> I'm not sure where YOU'RE going, but we're all sticking around here, TN, and FB...</div>

LADY324

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[QUOTE]I just went from six to midnight. If you're comfortable in it... keep it!!  You look HOT! And I applaud you for attempting to wear something out of your comfort zone... <strong>I don't have have the bells... I mean balls.  Yes, I really did make that terrible joke.
</strong>Posted by k8888[/QUOTE]

ha ha good one!!

butterflyjumper1

yea bells....where do you think you are going?????? we sure as heck aren't leaving!

bells24412

Good! I am glad we can all keep in touch still!

butterflyjumper1

we all have to keep in touch for at least long enough to see each other get pregnant and have babies. and we all know who is going to win the baby race :-D

KatieK501

If you don't feel comfortable wearing it to the bachelorette party - wear it on the honeymoon so your husband can see it!!  (He'd probably like that more anyway...).

You look great!!

bells24412

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[QUOTE]DAHAMN girl!! hahaha Seriously, it looks awesome!!!  But if you aren't comfortable you'll be worried about it all night...I know I would...<strong>HOWEVER, once I had some booze in me I don't think I'll be worried about anything...ha ha
</strong>Posted by littlemoments324[/QUOTE]

This is so me! lol.

k8888

I'm not talking to any of you creepers ever again after this month.

Seriously, though, ilu guys.  Let's keep in touch, plz.  I need to see all of your wedding picsssss.  And then baby picsssss.

tealeyedangel

Girl you look like a knockout! You have beautiful curves, I think the dress is great and you don't look "slu*ty" at all in it...But I will echo everyone else, if you aren't comfy find something you are comfy in. 

and also....we are all gonna be here....gotta see who has babies who buys a house....and we got girls not gettin married till end of July so we gotta see those pics too!