Long story short (I hope).. I have an older sister that I am not very close with. She is an extremely destructive person with all sorts of issues so I have distanced myself from her over the years. I was a flower girl at her first wedding and her maid of honor at her second wedding (It has been about 10 years since the second wedding so the falling out was after). However, I still keep in contact with my niece and nephew. I was planning on having my nephew be the ringbearer but I'm not sure what to have my niece do. She is 17 and I have my bridesmaids already.. how else can I have her involved in the wedding. My mind is blank.. Any ideas?