I have a lot of friends and family who are getting married this year/next year. I am interested to know from you ladies how you determine how much money to give as a wedding gift (or if you buy a gift for the wedding, how do you decide how much to spend?). Do you base it off the per plate cost? Or your relationship with the person getting married?
To me it seems silly to give one of my close friends $x and another $y just because one had a bigger budget and can spend more per plate. A wedding magazine I read recently says it is also appropriate to deteremine the amount based on your relationship. Thoughts? Thanks!