I am trying to arrange a trip for as many of my BMs as possible to go together to look at the preselected bridesmaid dress options. I am asking them to chose one of two dress options in the same color and fabric (black cotton sateen). I am trying to be very very sensitive with all things bridesmaid right now because there is a little bit of resistance right now with the dresses not being flattering. Anyways, since the wedding colors are black and green and the BM dresses are black and I am obsessed with matching colors, I would love for the ladies to wear green shoes. I am willing to purchase these shoes and have them dyed, I'm only asking that the shoes be worn for pictures and our 25 minute ceremony, and then they can be sold on ebay or thrown away or whatever. I know some people are in strong opposition of bridesmaids wearing the same shoes, but it is a detail that I love and 2/4 girls are already on board with the idea.
The issue: I don't talk to or see the other two ladies very often and I'm not sure how to bring up the idea of wearing matching shoes. I want to get their input on shoes when we go shopping for the dress. I am about to start the commmunication thread to find a time to go shopping, so should I mention it upfront that I want to look at shoes that I will purchase for them, or should I wait until we are at the store?
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