Well as the invitations are on their way here (for me to then address them and send them out), FI helped me finally complete another BIG check - the DJ. Back in June I thought I had a DJ locked down, well he fell through and thus began the series of flaky DJs. Finally we have one! Now on to the BM dresses - which I am dreading figuring out. BLAH! I just don't know how to pick a brand and color. I'm looking for a brand with a color I like, in a few different styles and not expensive (since I am paying for them). It doesn't seem to exist.