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Not sure how to feel.....

So with my wedding fast approaching, I have been kind of feeling weird. The reason is that about 2 months ago, my cousin and BM told me she was not going to be in my wedding anymore because I would not allow her bf to come. Why? you ask...well he is a felon, like just got out of prison felon. And he has multiple arrests and a long longggg record for all sort of things from assault to drug charges and on my wedding day that is the last thing I need to worry about, not to mention that my father is an ex-cheif of police...so needless to say it would not have been a good idea....... not to mention the fact that she was kind of being a beast....but due to the fact that she is my cousin, I just feel really weird about it and we have not spoken since the whole thing happened. I am not sad because she made her bed she has to lie in it, but I am pissed because I already had bought her dress/shoes/jewelry/presents, so that really really pissed me off...... Anyways, I am really excited for my wedding but we are supposed to be moving into our new home in a week and it needs to be painted and cleaned and ahhh....I think I am starting to stress........ok sorry for the rant.

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    diorgrl8diorgrl8 member
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    edited December 2011
    tifani- i'm totally with you on the last minute stress...and the house-moving thrown in the mix. I can TOTALLY relate. Just breathe...hawaii is days away!! :)
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    elaineNgeneelaineNgene member
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    edited December 2011
    Agreed!  You have enough to worry about with moving and the wedding, you shouldn't have to worry about your cousin's felon of a boyfriend.  I'm sorry you had to put up that money for her stuff, but just take it as a loss, and it will be worth it to not have that drama on your special day.Whoo-hoo November brides!!!  :)  It snuck up on us SO FAST!!!
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    edited December 2011
    Diorgrl-I know we are like on the same path, it's kinda cool I think:) Maybe we will have babies at the same time too!!! LOL! Thanks for the support Elaine-Thanks lady, I know us November brides are creeping up!!!!
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    elaineNgeneelaineNgene member
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    edited December 2011
    Hang in there Tifani!  It will all be over soon, and totally worth it when you and your hubby get to come home to a place all your own!!!  And you'll get to spend your first holidays as a married couple, in your new place, that's gotta be something to look forward to.  That goes for you too Hannah :)
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    maui2011maui2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear about the drama...do you have another friend/family member to take her place?  Good for you for not wanting him there...that is just too much of a risk to take.  Hang in there sweetie...in just a few weeks you and your FI will be on a beach expressing your love for each other. J. :-)
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    edited December 2011
    Bah, s/o drama is always... well... it's impossible to stand between them, isn't it?You're almost there, the last minute stresses are just part and parcel of the whole experience!
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies...I know I'll be fine....it's just in the back of my mind....I know that on the day of, or even when we are flying over I won't really care about anything but being in Hawaii and getting married to my wonderful fiance Terran! But you ladies rock for supporting me!
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