So, my parents are still absolutely insisting on us having the party and insisting on paying. My mom has assured me that they will have money for the deposits for everything and if they don't have the money to pay the balance when the time comes they'll ask my g-ma for a check from my Uncle's estate.
SO, this Saturday we went as a group to the Dueling Piano bar in Baltimore and talked to our two favorite of the guys and got their information! They are interested in doing our party

We're pretty thrilled