AK Rude Guest Update

AKWinterBride

**Removed to prevent snoopy eyes** 

I truly appreciate all the support from you wonderful ladies!!  Thank you all!

sparklegirl84

Oh no hun!! This sounds so stressful and frustrating, I hate family drama!! It's rediculous that weddings bring it out. Hopefully you can stay strong and get through it "keep calm and carry on" like they say. I totally understand your side and think it's so rude that his parents didn't even consult you guys before buying their tickets after the rsvp date! wtf?! I hope things blow over and you can have an enjoyable shower and wedding. I don't really have any advice but when I had some major mom drama a few months ago I just had to tell myself "pick your battles". Good Luck lady!

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I'm so sorry AK for the drama! I wish people wouldn't take things so personally especially when it's not their wedding (or money). It's sad that they don't realize this isn't about them. Take care!

breaness

Yuck yuck yuck! She sounds like a pill. I'm so sorry that things went down the way they did. I guess at this point you should just try to not let them ruin your wedding day.

motoLyn

AK that sounds awful.  I find it aggregating when people think that throwing money at something will fix the problem.  I do hope that things can get back on track between you and FI.  You definitely need to set boundaries with your FMIL.  Show her that you won't be bullied, but also to pick your battles wisely.  Constant clashing will just disrupt the family dynamics especially since your brother married your FI's sister. 

SavvyLittleBride

Aww, that sounds awful. It looks like you and FI have been together for a long time so I know that you can get through this. First, you have to calm down a bit and then sit down with FI and his parents and express your issues/concerns. People don't realize just know much goes into wedding planning and yes, how adding two guests can disrupt the entire budget. Then listen to any solutions they might come up with. Work together as a team. That way whatever the outcome the final decision will be shared among the team and you don't have to feel the burden. Good luck, you will do great.

maui2011

Wow...she is a piece of work...i can't believe his parents bought them they're tix after the rsvp date, after they already confirmed they were not coming and didn't even have the courtesy to ask if they can come...totally inconsiderate and selfish.  So sorry that you have to go through all this drama a few weeks before your wedding, especially causing you and your FI to argue about it. Just a thought but maybe you can write your FI a letter to explain why you feel the way you do and without pointing blame.  Hang in there sweetie and best of luck on Saturday! J. :-)

kimmykupcakes

I missed the lastest, but I know it's not good. Sorry you are going through more BS!

Tanq&Tonic

I missed the update as well, but I'm so sorry to hear that things got worse.  *hugs* and thoughts are with you...hope it is improving by the minute.  We're always here for you.  Feel free to PM me anytime for less visible venting   *HUGS*

kaesha

I missed it too. It sounds like it was frustrating though. =(