bad news upon bad news...

gabrielyte

So yesterday I lost it... I took it out on my father... I feel sooo crappy about it today!  but first, my make-up artists canceled on me (not even 3 weeks before the wedding), then, my FI hurt his hand really badly while fixing a garage door.  he ended up with stiches, ect. ect.  3 of his left hand fingers (index being the worse, and middle and thumb are banged up too).  probably 2 of his nails will come off, and it will be scared black and blue for the wedding...  and then my FMIL complained how we went to urgent aid instead of ER, because to her opinion urgent aid is a waste of money... so finally, when my dad cut me off mid way through my conversation i snapped!... i can't believe i lost it... i think it is all the stress and anxiety prior to the wedding, but i can't believe i lost my cool...
thanks for listening!

mekiakoo

Oh no! I'm sorry this has been happening!!! I hope your FI is okay. Don't worry- everything will be ok on your wedding day

Have you talked to your dad and said you were sorry? I'm sure he'll understand that it was all from the stress and he still loves you and vice versa

I lost it at my mom during the shower and I felt bad. But we're all good now- she was a basket case the entire time!

owengirl996

Awww I'm sorry your FI got hurt That alone is stressful. Just apologize to your dad, and hopefully he will understand.

I think we're all having "bridezilla" moments lately, even when it's not wedding related lol When I was in Indiana last month at my venue, I know I had a moment because nothing was going to be set up as it was in my head. Plus, I was told we could decorate Friday morning...turns out there is some kid's camp going on in our venue that isn't even over until 5pm, so they will start setting up tables then, and our rehearsal is at 6, dinner following, so we probably won't even get to start decorating until 9pm Anyway, I felt bad for the venue coordinator...she'd just taken over the old coordinator's job that week, and I think I might have overwhelmed her with my grumpiness lol

Sorry, did not mean to hijack...just trying to point out that you're not alone!!

kmdeck26

I'm so sorry about everything

Mom and I hit our snapping point a few weeks ago right after the hair/makeup apt. We have been at each others throats now for years. And it took us this long to discover how different we were and how we needed to be more understanding of the personality of the other.

I'm very soft and gentle and calm. I ask please for everything. Whereas my mother is sarcastic and demanding and harsh. She told me I was too nice. I told her she was too mean. It was bad. We ended up just promising to understand where the other was coming from. Now lately she has been much nicer, and I have been trying hard to be tougher around her.

I know this has nothing to do with your rant... but just now that we all have our snapping points! Our family knows we are under a lot of stress. Apologize, let him know what's been going on, and he will forgive and you both will move on

Melissa.hylton

I snapped too on sunday. Fi was supposed to load our gifts and laundry in the car after spending the weekend at FMIL house for my shower and he just tossed it in. Didnt arrange it so our son could even sit in the car!? So i pulled everything out while screaming at the top of my lungs and made it all fit! How fn hard is it to work a puzzle????? Also last night i went down to get water at like 2am and the damn water jug was empty in the fridge! How hard is it to refill a jug of water!? UGH... FI has def been testing me and wonders why im stressed on top of wedding stress. 

clh4444

LOL stress = meltdown. 10 days to wedding, lots of housing related stress dealing with a condo that was sold and then our buyer lost their financing 3 days before closing AFTER we had moved everything out, flower girl of ex-SIL drama and two days ago the refrigerator door just fell off!!!! That was the straw and I completely lost it and then FI lost it because all of his tools are in storage and we couldn't get door fixed. However, a new day always comes and the door is now fixed, we can laugh about our meltdown and calm has settled in. Calm and excitement. I'm getting married in ten days!!!