Well... we've pretty much made up our mind that the wedding will be on Sept 18th 2010. Church wedding in our home town. However, now we're up in arms about the reception site. I really want to have it at my father's house which he just recently build. A poolside evening wedding, floating candles, hanging lights, white tables etc. But now we're worried there won't be enough room. And parking is going to be difficult. I'm almost willing to cut the guest list so I can have the reception there. Am I being stupid about this? I always pictured an evening pool side reception. Drinks, light food, nice music.I just don't want to make a mistake!