The FOG and MOG do NOT get along at all! The MOG has said that she will pick up any slack by the FOG and his second wife(who freaked out when her own daughter wanted a $300 wedding dress because she thought it was too expensive). My wedding is going to cost a lot more than they are willing to spend. How do I involve the FOG and stepmom in the wedding planning? I want them to be included but I don't want to hear any complaints about money. Also, the Groom and stepmom don't get along that well and he doesn't really want me to include her in the planning but I feel like I should if they are going to be contributing money. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.