Grrrr, so I need to vent to someone, and heaven forbid I do it on FB, since it would probably cause all sorts of drama...So, I have quite a few "friends" (I use the term loosely) on FB that I went to high school with who have had kids out of wedlock. Not saying this is horrible, because I realize things happen. And that's not what my vent is about.My vent is that now that they have had kids with their boyfriends (none of them are engaged, let alone married), they now feel they can call their boyfriends "husband", "hubby", and other terms of endearment that should be reserved for people that are actually married. It really gets my blood boiling- I feel like it cheapens marriage and what I am planning, and what we are all going through. I always make sure to say future husband, hubby-to-be...I never refer to him directly as my husband, because we aren't married yet! I just really feel like it's demeaning to the real deal.I know I am probably overreacting, but for some reason, this little thing really heats me up. If you aren't married, do NOT call him your husband, and don't call her your wife. Simple as that. If you want to call them that, head down to the justice of the peace.Grrr!