So.. I was excited because the first two RSVPS arrived today in the mail. The first one was a yes, which I was totally excited about because I didnt think she would be able to make it The second one was a no which from my cousins on my dad side. Now, they live in MD- not far away from where I am getting married. But... the reason they said no was because theymade plans to go to a school reunion. Now i am hurt, livid , and upset because I have traveledto Nj for anything they have, come to everything, and came up for their wedding when I was at college. Now they've known for two years, 9 months for the Save The Date, and saw me on 7/11 at my brothers weddding and said see you at your wedding! And now all of sudden you made plans for a school reunion. I am pissed!!! I am sorry Family comes first. Im just going to write them off! I cant stand ignorant people. Now, thats a lame reason. I could understand being far away or being sick.We even have people who are coming from far away and are sick still coming to my wedding!uGHH!