Hey Ladies,
it was great meeting some fellow Knotties last Friday! Can't wait for the next get together. In the meantime, here's a little story with a question:
We have the following booked: Caterer, DJ, Photographer, Venue (two actually, need to drop one here soon), Church...and i think that's it. The problem is, I feel like something isn't quite right.
My finance and I have one thing we want: Get married ASAP/ be together (almost 4 years together with 2.5 being long distance). Our wedding date is October 20th, 2012, and I'm starting to feel antsy about the wait.
Since the wedding we are planning just isn't feeling like what we want it to be (not to sound like a brat but I think we both want a $25,000 wedding on a $15,000 budget) what should we do?!
(I graduate in May 2012, and will be moving in June, hence why June is our other option)
Follow through with the wedding we are planning for 10-20-12
Have a quickie courthouse ceremony with just us in June 2012 and throw the wedding reception of our dreams in a few years
Have just a church ceremony with family in June 2012
Wait to get married until we can throw down enough money to have the wedding of our dreams?
And a side note, I have dreaded and slogged through every minute of the wedding planning thus far and my attitude is more of "Ugh" than "Yay!" when I think of having to do more planning over the next year. Especially when I am not sure the wedding I am planning is the wedding I am going to look back on fondly. I feel like it's more of a "we're young and throwing this together for as cheap as possible". :-(
Also, my finance is 100% okay with whatever option, but he's definitely in favor of no reception.
Thanks for reading! Had to vent.