I know it's not LCMS, but you are more than welcome to come visit our church anytime (especially Christmas Eve...the service is absolutely wonderful- the early service- I can't remember if it's 4:30 or 5:30- is geared purely for families with young children, and would be perfect for your daughter).
I know I am biased, but I really love our church- the members are the most welcoming of any church I have ever visited, there are so many ways to get involved (both for kids, adults, and families), and it's truly a genuine good heart church. It's actually quite amazing; while most churches in this area are cutting back or losing members, we keep growing...so much so, we have had to call another pastor, and we are looking to sell our land/building, and buy and build a bigger church because we need the space desperately.
It's not the same, but I would just suggest giving it a try. One Sunday, it won't hurt, and you never know- you might find that you love it
